The first person in my sister, my one and only sister (I consider both of my sis-in-laws as my sister too, but biologically speaking I have only one sister *LOL*). My sister who’s eleven years older than me and sometimes treats me more like her daughter (she often calls me by her daughter’s name, FML) than her sister LOL. My sister whom a lot of people thinks exactly looks like me but smaller (she’s tiny, like… ten cm shorter than me) but for some reason other people thinks looks nothing like me (but the comparison between those who thinks I look like her and those who doesn’t is like 9:1 so I guess I have to admit I kinda look like her a little… Even strangers points me out to be her sister so guess there are a lot of similarities look-wise. I don’t necessarily appreciate being compared to her because she’s like… so much older and it makes me feel like people are telling me I look old if they say I look like her FML, undecided call it “my biggest fear” LOL).

My sister, W, is like a polar opposite of me. She’s motherly (my God, she’s a total mother hen), feminine (I’m actually quite feminine too but in an entirely different way, if that even make sense LOL), into “classy and mature” things (whereas me as you should know by know, is super girly and into cutesy stuffs which she claims will look retarded on her). We’ve had our shared of ups and downs as a regular sisters, we hated each other and we loved each other that only sisters can do. And despite my constant confusion dealing with her I of course love and cherish her (something that I will never admit IRL, because Asians are stiff and weird LOL!), and I definitely celebrate her. 

This year she’s stepping into a new chapter in her life (age-wise), I won’t reveal her real age (but if you managed to know my real age and know simple math then you can count for yourself hahahaha) since my aunt said “age is a woman’s biggest secret” LOL, and since we’re a tight knit family then of course we ended up celebrating her big day together. Not that it was that simple. I don’t know if it’s because she’s a Sagitarius *I’m pulling an #Undecided here and goes all Zodiac-expert on y’all* but she’s one peculiar lady. I congratulate her on our family’s BBM group and she said thank you and “for those who are in Surabaya-dinner tonight, place will be announced later, those in Banjarmasin will be sent pictures hehe” (my youngest elder brother  and his family lives in Banjarmasin, another city on Indonesia).

Sounds simple right? WRONG. It took her more than half a day to pick a place for dinner FML. Not only that, she didn’t ponder and muck through her lists of luxury restaurants (one thing about her is that everything about her is kinda pricey. LOL. Polar opposite of me, remember? I’m a fashionista on a budget, LOL) but she actually terrorized me as well. She BBM-ed me endlessly that day (don’t believe me? Check with #Undecided, I showed her all d BBM and moan endlessly to her as well. When a day is being weird on me it’s 100% gonna be weird for #Undecided too because it’s written in her job description as my BFF ma! Me suffer she also has to suffer OBVI) and keep on sprucing up restaurants names (she considers me as an expert in dining out, which I find really weird. But I figured, I’m young (ish) so I should be happening right, so maybe this is a deeply hidden compliment? Hahahaha) and whenever I gave her my opinion she’d begun arguing with me. Pffftttt. And then she’s come up with another restaurant’s name. And then pointed out their flaws. Then  another one, and another one and another one… The cycle goes on…

And she gave me hopes that we’re gonna have nice steak  in a pretty restaurant that night… I already prepared my tummy by not really eating anything that day (definitely good and pricey food will fill your tummy when my sis and her family celebrate things), and then she finally gave me her final choice, like two hours before the appointed dinner time and she said “Ebisu ya, Mercure Hotel.” -____-. Ebisu is a Japanese restaurant and I do not like Japanese fooooodddddd gyaaaaaaaa!! (love sushi though, but that’s the only thing I love, oh and onigiri but they are pretty much the same thing what)

#Undecided would definitely blame it on her Sagitarius-ness (she said Sagitarius is the weirdest amongst all Zodiacs and their common traits is being weird. Like, the weirdness level  would be different from one Sagitarius to another. See, I do listen #Undecided! I didn’t not blank out much when you yap about zodiacs! At least not too much!) and I guess I agree with her. Zzz. Anyway, we had teppanyaki (you know teppanyaki right? Where the chef would cook your food in front of you in a flat and huge… err…surface? I am helpless when it comes to this kind of things)
 

Anyway… moving on… First picture!

Birthday girl with a present from moi, a bday cake!

 All of us (that’s my nephew I was holding on to okay LOL)

But my hair's kinda get in the way FML

PS : I am currently annoyed at W again because she decided to join our trip to Bali and turning it into an expensive getaway *sigh*. But it’d probably be good posts for y’all to read so… Look forward to it!